My grandfather turned down 5 Purple Hearts from WW2. That is true love is ourselves and winning doesn't matter positive energy domination. Only accept medals, awards, and trophies unless it would be self hating not accept. Never base your self worth on what you have won or lost. In some cases it's positive to smash really important trophies on the ground on the process to learning about true self love. I smashed my crystal Peace Race 2nd best young rider thropy into the ground. I still have the pieces and will display it broken or use it to make a dinosaur art piece or something positive.
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